Dating these days can seem like a game: swipes left, swipes right, superficial conversations, and sometimes, a few quick dates. But in the midst of that whirlwind, have you ever asked yourself, "Am I really building a relationship, or am I just dating?"
The difference lies in intention and action. Dating can be about exploring, getting to know different people. But building a relationship is about actively cultivating something deeper and more meaningful.
Signs you're building a relationship:
Sincere communication: Not just talking about the weather, but also sharing dreams, fears, and important things in life.
Active listening: Really listening to the other person, not just waiting for your turn.
Respecting boundaries: Understanding and respecting the other person's limitations.
Resolving conflict constructively: Instead of avoiding problems, you work together to find a solution.
Invest the time and effort: Make time for each other, and be willing to do the little things to show you care.
So, what should you do?
Ask yourself: What do you want from this relationship? If you want more than just fun dates, be more proactive in building a connection. This doesn't mean you have to rush, but rather be open, honest, and willing to invest in the relationship.
Building a lasting relationship takes time and effort, but the rewards are priceless. So ask yourself: Are you dating... or actually building a relationship?